How To Help A Shy Child · A shy child need not necessarily be treated with kid gloves.
· There are a few points about shyness in children which will help you better understand the best approach in dealing with your child.
· First of all, are you sure your child really is shy? Some children like to size up a situation before they jump in. Caution should not be misunderstood as shyness.
· Don't call your child "shy". Studies have shown that often a child will grow to fit a label.
· Parental pressure on the shy child can cause anxiety and insecurity, leading to a worse problem with shyness. Don't push your child to achieve above his or her individual level.
· Never compare your shy child with other children in a negative way. And never allow anyone else to hurt your child in this way.
· Take your child's ideas seriously. By lessening the importance of a child's concerns you lessen the child.
· Encourage your shy child to get involved in activities with others. Don't allow too many isolating activities, like watching TV.
· Never push your shy child to do things he or she would find unbearable. Rather, make suggestions, but realize your child may not be ready. Be patient.
· You need not handle your shy child with kid gloves, but be aware of how he feels and show that you understand. | 
