Examples on Positive Thinking

Lack of Love, Rejection in Romance

Nobody understands me.

I just don't belong.

I'm so all alone.

I know he won't find me interesting.

I knew she/he'd reject me. I'm so boring.

I can't live without her/him.

I'll never get over him/her.

I'm going to be an old maid (or lonely bachelor) all my life.

Nobody cares about me and nobody ever will.

What's the use? I'll never find love.

Without a lover, life is endless depression.

How could anyone ever love me?

She's the only one I could ever care for.

Nobody likes rejection, but I'll get over it.

I'll pick the places I'd like to go to meet people. 

Moaning for a lover will turn people off. What interests and activities can I develop?

I wish she/he hadn't left me, but it'll be fun to start dating again.

Rejection is a normal part of life.

I'll find someone I get along with better someday.

It's not the end of the world. 

Being cheerful will help me find someone new.

Maybe she/he is too busy or deeply involved. I'll ask someone else.

Social Hostility or Rejection

They really think I'm no good! 

There must be something wrong with me.

I made such a fool of myself. I can't ever go back there.

It's not fair they're against me. 

I can't stand it!

This is just awful. They hate me.

It's my fault she doesn't like me anymore.

He seems angry. I must have done something wrong.

The way he acts just tears me apart.

I just know he doesn't like me.

I know I'm living a good life.That's all that matters. 

People respect a guy who can hold his head up after a mistake.

It's not worth getting upset about. Plenty of people like me as I am.

You can't please everyone, no matter how hard you try.

I wonder why he's so moody.
Maybe he's having some kind of personal problem or maybe he's just having a bad day. I guess I shouldn't take it personally.