Problem drinkers and their families

There are factors which seem to protect children though. If the non-drinking parent or another significant adult figure (e.g. a grand-parent or a teacher) can provide a stable emotional atmosphere and can give the child love and attention, the child is much less likely to suffer negative emotional consequences. Providing a predictable daily routine and maintaining good relationships outside the family are also positive protectors.

In the long term many children of problem drinkers make a good adjustment in adulthood. Difficult experiences can strengthen determination and develop maturity. There is a small tendency for such adults to be more depressed, anxious and dissatisfied with life and a slightly increased risk of their drinking to excess or taking illicit drugs. Most at risk are those from families where both parents drank problematically and where there was a great deal of discord. Generally though this tendency to assumption of severe psychological damage should not be exaggerated; a bad outcome is by no means inevitable. Children's experiences and feelings are often forgotten by warring or separating parents. Drinkers want to believe that children don't know or understand. Our advice is to face these issues. If you or your partner has a drinking problem, an early intervention is the best indicator of a successful outcome